The Aesthete (Introverted Feeling + Sensing)


The Aesthete is a person of deep emotion and an eye for aesthetics. Commonly, they are and consider themselves to be artists or critics in the craft of their preference. Most famous musicians, fashion designers, makeup artists, dancers, models, beauty gurus, aestheticians, photographers, hairdressers, marketeers and influencers are of that type. Many times, the Aesthete effortlessly develops a personal style as they grow up, choosing to dress themselves at an early age. The best dressed people are often Aesthetes. They can be quite immaculate; or on the flip side, ignore their appearance in sake for loftier or more practical goals in favor of their personal ethics and values.

The Aesthete bears a particular kind of sensitivity which onlookers rarely get to see initially. They can be unforgiving and hold grudges or be surprisingly harsh in their judgments of people’s behavior and character – mostly when someone has hurt their feelings or impeached on something they consider of personal significance. Some Aesthetes are more forgiving and have weaker boundaries, but nevertheless there is a (concealed) harshness in the way they handle relationships. They can be very critical of who they let into their inner circle; it is not uncommon for the other person having to prove themselves as someone trustworthy first. They clearly divide friend from foe and can be quite reticent towards whom they judge to be “strangers”.

Many things move an Aesthete’s inner core emotionally; a piece of music, a painting, an image, a word, an action. In the hall of their feelings, there is a lot of resonance. This emotionality is further increased by their physicality; they can feel emotional pain quite acutely in their bodies. They do not care for their internal sensations but their feelings are intimately interwoven with them either way, which can make them quite physically and emotionally sensible/sensitive, similar to The Bonvivant, though differently from them, The Aesthete typically conceals hidden sensitivities with a front of strength or even callousness. They can be quite cognizant of how they should tend to their health or appearance, and able at doing so well. If they neglect it, it is typically on purpose in favor of other matters in life. However, the depth of their internal emotionality is commonly not obvious; in that way, the Aesthete can paradoxically appear to be quite unemotional and unaffected by outside influence, similarly to The Strategist. On the rare occasion they communicate their feelings in an intimate setting, it is rather common for the Aesthete to keep a straight “poker” face. They prefer to express the depth of their emotion through indirect means; instead of laughing out loud or giving an emotional speech, the Aesthete is more likely going to write and sing a song, a letter, draw a painting, or similar. Even so, when an Aesthete feels as if they are surrounded by people of their inner circle or of value, they can be humorous or more lighthearted.

The Aesthete often feels the need to appear more logical and rational as a counterbalance to their internal emotionality. People may scold them for being too irrational and not making any logical sense; as a response, the Aesthete will try to learn theoretical knowledge and similar. However, they do not like to delve too deeply into the mechanics of theories and systems, which differentiates them from The Psychoanalyst; it becomes rather apparent it is not their strong suit and they do not truly care for it. They much prefer factual knowledge which is of a more practical nature and has stronger ties to observable reality, or alternatively spiritual insights. They usually like to rely on other individuals who seem competent at the area of their interest, rather than learning the details of the theories themselves.

In that manner, the Aesthete admires people who are organized and knowledgable on a wide range of topics, who are enterprising and influential, who are more practical and efficient than them, and who have a vision for the future, such as The Entrepreneur. The Aesthete is commonly intrigued by means to observe a future or how to manage their time more properly; employing those means often becomes a hobby or pastime activity for an Aesthete. Especially the spiritual and foresight-related activities can make them appear similar to The Psychoanalyst. Many Aesthetes are spiritual or believe in a god; they like to feel as if their life has greater meaning, though some Aesthetes go the opposite route and become Atheist.

Despite their lack of strong logic, the Aesthete manages to be influential on a more visceral level. They can find ways to obtain a higher or estimated rank in social groups of their choosing, if they attempt to do so. (Nowadays, that often happens on social media.) It is not clear how exactly the Aesthete accomplishes this; people cannot help but feel like the Aesthete has an influence over them and is of value. Once someone has entered their inner circle or won their heart, they can be direct and clear about what they like, want, and so forth. They are capable at protecting their personal space and pushing forward their interests.

It can be incredibly challenging to convince an Aesthete of alternative possibilities or meanings or ways of life when they do not fit into the feelings an Aesthete has about the situation or topic. Aesthetes can be extremely resistant to change, especially when it occurs in the outside world. Often times, Aesthetes are quite set in their ways and react quite negatively if someone tries to make them change their ways. It is not uncommon for an Aesthete to stay in the same mindset for many years, to meet an Aesthete many years later and not much will have changed about them at all – neither appearance-wise nor mentally. Aesthetes are often more mature, as in serious, from rather early on, and this maturity carries on to the years to come; this is why people often take them more seriously than other types. Despite this, Aesthetes can also (unknowingly) engage in endeavors or relationships which prove to be rather foolish or even quite detrimental from a long-term perspective; their wisdom has its limits in time-related perception. Aesthetes are amongst the people who tend to change the least in their lives; and that can both be a blessing and a curse. Both positive traits and negative issues are most likely going to remain, unless a major life event will force them to change their perspective.

The Ego of the Aesthete:

  1. Introverted Feeling (Fi)
  2. Extroverted Sensing (Se)

The Super-IdIntroverted Intuition (Ni) and Extroverted Thinking (Te)

The weakest: Extroverted Thinking (Te) and Extroverted Intuition (Ne)

The strongest: Introverted Feeling (Fi) and Introverted Sensing (Si)

Correlations: ISFP (MBTI), ESI (Socionics)

There are specific subtype variations of the Aesthete.

Those variations can be grouped into Fi (Introverted Feeling) subtype and Se (Extroverted Sensing) subtype.

Fi (Introverted Feeling) subtype Aesthetes share one or several of those traits:
Stereotypically introverted; more invested in spiritual, mystical, or abstractly creative endeavors or interests; more in need of practical help and guidance and less concerned with physicality or appearance; more sensitive and touchy.

Se (Extroverted Sensing) subtype Aesthetes share one or several of those traits:
”Ambiverted“ (can be mistaken for an extrovert); more visibly pushy or even ”bossy“; more impulsive; more into sports and forming their body into an impressive physique; more logical/less emotional (can be mistaken for a Logical type).

An Aesthete who falls into both categories more or less is mostly likely the No subtype kind.

Besides the above, other variations are:
More individualistic and/or abstract (Type 4); more vigilant and/or energetic (Type 6); more appeasing and easygoing (Type 9).

Most compatible: The Entrepreneur, The Aesthete, The Strategist, (Coming soon)

Least compatible: The Experimentalist

Note: Of course there are aesthetes who possess a different personality type, so please do not assume that all aesthetes in the world fit this personality type! I call the Introverted Feeling + Sensing personality type “The Aesthete” not only because they are usually aesthetic (visually and/or ethically), but also because this personality structure personifies the archetype the best.

Last update: 16-09-2020


  1. I’m confused as to whether I’m an Aesthete or a Bonvivant. I actually relate to both, but I am an infp and an enneagram 4, so I wonder if I could be both?


    • Hey! Sounds like I need to write a post about INFP’s equivalent. And no, you cannot be both! But the Aesthete and Bonvivant have the same strengths and weaknesses, so it can be easy to confuse the two. (Especially if you are a Type 9.) They correlate with ISFP and ISFJ in MBTI respectively. If you would like to get typed by me, you can message me here and/or book a typing session here!


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